FROM THE DESK OF THE FOUNDER
This week's Sip is doing the most. In the best possible way.
Before we get into it, quick note: BACKSTAGE is officially LIVE. Our members-only community just went public and I cannot wait to see you inside. Our inaugural event is this Wednesday at 6 PM PT with author Rufi Thorpe, DJ Goody from Killjoy Bottle Shop, and a partnership reveal I've been sitting on for weeks. Founding Members are locking in $190 for the full year (more on that at the bottom of this Sip).
Okay, now the content.
First up: Seattle hip-hop gets its sober moment. You know I've been here since the flannel era, watched Macklemore put us back on the map, and now Coaster and JHenry are out here making music that actually matters. The Creative Sober got them talking about recovery, identity, and the music they're building from the other side of it. Read it.
Then we pivot hard. A sober Tennessee road trip through Dollywood, Franklin, and Nashville (yes, Dolly country, yes, it's glorious). A sober date night guide with zero awkward silences and a full permission slip to flirt. And Daniel Radcliffe as our Sober Celeb of the Week, because the Boy Who Lived has quietly been living alcohol-free for years and I am obsessed with how normal he is about it.
We've also got the piece I think is going to start a fight in the comments: From Bottle to Screen, on the sneaky modern trap most of us don't want to admit we've fallen into. Plus what motherhood and sobriety taught me about actually leading well. The #MoonJoy experiment (ten days, one moon, weirder results than expected). And the thing nobody tells you about chronic pain in recovery, which I promise is the kind of honest writing you won't find in a treatment center pamphlet.
Pour your fanciest non-alc pour. Get comfortable. This one's a good one.
Now let’s get to it…
— Alysse Bryson (*AB That’s Me 💋) / Seattle, WA 🌃 05.01.2006
BACKSTAGE WITH THE SOBER CURATOR
Media Night | Rufi Thorpe Live
Your first BACKSTAGE event is here. And we are not starting small.
Rufi Thorpe, the author of Margo’s Got Money Troubles, is joining us live for an intimate conversation inside the BACKSTAGE community. If you’ve been watching the Apple TV+ series (premiering April 15, one week before we meet), you already know why this matters. If you read the book when we first covered it in our Addiction Fiction section two years ago, you’ve been waiting for this moment.
This is not a panel. This is not a press junket. This is a small, private group conversation with the woman who created Margo, Jinx, Shyanne, and one of the most talked-about stories in pop culture right now.
We will talk about the book. The show. The characters. What it means to write addiction and recovery as just part of who a person is, instead of a plot device or a cautionary tale.
This event is exclusively for BACKSTAGE Founding Members.
RECOVERY PODCASTLAND
Sober Hip-Hop in the Pacific Northwest: Coaster and JHenry on Recovery, Identity, and Making Music That Matters
BWhat does it mean to make art from the inside out? Not from a place of performance or persona, but from the actual interior of a life rebuilt? Two of the most recent guests on The Creative Sober Podcast are answering that question from the same corner of the country, Washington State, and through the same genre: hip-hop.
Coaster (S5E06) and JHenry (S5E07) don't share a sound. They don't share the same story. But they share something harder to name, a commitment to making music that costs something, rooted in the real work of recovery, identity, and showing up for their communities.
SOBER LIFESTYLE
Sober Date Ideas That Are Flirty, Fun, and Never Awkward
Here’s what nobody tells you about sober dating: it’s actually better. Not “better considering” — just better. You show up as yourself, you remember everything, and the chemistry you feel is real. No asterisks.
In your drinking days, the plan was basically: show up, order something, order another something, and hope the dim lighting and lowered inhibitions did the rest. (Chemistry! Or at least a convincing impression of it.)
Take alcohol out of the equation and suddenly you realize: we have to actually plan this thing.
WHAT A TRIP!
Sober Tennessee Road Trip: Best Things to Do in Dollywood, Franklin & Nashville
We stayed at Dollywood's HeartSong Lodge & Resort, and the moment you walk through those doors, you are engulfed in a not-so-subtle huge portrait of Dolly hanging over a fireplace, paying tribute to Dolly's seven-decade career. Alysse and I stood there for a solid minute like golden retrievers who'd just discovered a sprinkler. Mouths slightly open. Fully enchanted.
HEALTH & WELLNESS
From Bottle to Screen: Modern Sobriety's Hidden Trap
Justin Lamb explores a thought-provoking question that many of us face: how many things do we need to be sober from? From California reds to endless scrolling, he examines how we might be trading one numbing mechanism for another. This honest look at modern sobriety challenges us to consider whether our screens have become the new way to avoid those big feelings we once dulled with substances.
LIFESTYLE
What Motherhood and Sobriety Have Taught Me About Leading Well
Sarah Alaimo shares how her son Jack (the self-appointed COO of their household) and her sobriety journey have revolutionized her understanding of authentic leadership. Forget the polished, performative version—real leadership is about presence, steadiness, and building genuine community. This heartfelt piece reveals how the most unexpected teachers often deliver the most profound lessons.
#WEDORECOVER
Sober Celeb of the Week: Daniel Radcliffe
He was 20 years old, one of the most famous people on the planet, and he was showing up to work hungover.
Not once. Not occasionally. Regularly. Daniel Radcliffe has said he sometimes filmed scenes for Harry Potter while still under the influence, or close enough to it that the line had stopped mattering.
He wasn’t partying. He was coping. There’s a difference, and he’s been honest about that difference in a way that most people in his position never are.
For anyone struggling, know that help is available: 📞 1-800-662-HELP (SAMHSA Helpline).
THIRSTY FOR WONDER
#MoonJoy: What Ten Days with the Moon Did to Us
Something happened to us over those ten days. And I don't think we're talking about it enough.
Collective joy is necessary for recovery. Really necessary. And for ten days in April, the moon, four astronauts, NASA, and a floating jar of Nutella gave us exactly that.
Let me explain.
SOBER EVENTS - VIRTUAL
The Thing Nobody Tells You About Sobriety and Chronic Pain
The Guest House is a five-day guided email experience created by Sober Curator contributors Anne Marie Cribbin and Amy Liz Harrison for anyone living with illness, chronic pain, recovery, or a body that does not always cooperate.
Inspired by Rumi’s poem The Guest House, this low-pressure offering invites participants to meet their lived experience with curiosity, softness, and radical self-hospitality. Each day includes a gentle reflection delivered by email, with an audio option available for days when reading feels like too much.
There is nothing to complete, nothing to perfect, and no pressure to perform wellness. Just a quiet space to feel seen, supported, and reminded that you are not alone.

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