What is the final girl trope, and what does it have to do with sobriety?

The final girl is the last woman alive at the end of a horror movie. On The Sober Curator, Senior Contributor Anne Marie Cribbin uses the trope to look at long-term sobriety. She asks what life looks like once survival is no longer the most interesting thing about you.

Are sober events more than mocktails?

Yes. TSC Sober Events Contributor Megan Wright spent six months scouting sober events, including Chicago AF’s Mocktoberfest. She found that connection, not the drinks, is what brings people back.

How can adults celebrate Halloween sober?

Sober Halloween can mean costume parties, horror marathons, DIY decor and zero-proof cocktails like The Wednesday, inspired by Christina Ricci’s Wednesday Addams. The Sober Curator has 24 ideas for an alcohol-free Halloween.

What is The Sober Curator?

The Sober Curator is a sober pop culture and lifestyle media brand founded by Alysse Bryson. It covers entertainment, NA drinks, travel, wellness and culture for sober and alcohol-free adults, with 38 contributors across six countries.

What does Taylor Swift have to do with recovery?

In “The Undeniables,” Julianne Griffin, founder of the sober Swiftie community Swift Steps, argues that denying Taylor Swift’s talent works like denial in addiction: the evidence is there, but the person won’t let it in. Recovery, she writes, builds the habit of letting true things stand, including your own worth.

FROM THE DESK OF THE FOUNDER

Hi friend,

Every horror movie ends the same way. The final girl stumbles into daylight, bloody and blinking, and the credits roll.

Nobody films her Tuesday.

Senior Contributor Anne Marie Cribbin wants to know what happens next, and so do I. I hit 20 years sober this past May, and “how did you survive?” stopped being the interesting question a long time ago. The better question is what you do with all the mornings you made it to.

Contributor Julianne Griffin, founder of Swift Steps, makes a case I can’t argue with. You can say Taylor Swift isn’t your thing, but you can’t say she isn’t talented. Then she flips it. Denial was never about missing evidence. Recovery is learning to let the evidence in, about Taylor and about yourself. Contributor Megan Wright went to Chicago AF’s Mocktoberfest and came back with a verdict: mocktails get people in the door, and the people keep them coming back.

Halloween is Saturday, so we’ve got 24 ways to do it sober, plus a Wednesday Addams drink that’s exactly as dark as you’d hope.

See you in the daylight.

— Alysse Bryson (*AB That’s Me 💋) / Seattle, WA 🌃 05.01.2006

LIFESTYLE

The Final Girl: Life Beyond Survival in Sobriety

Horror movies celebrate the woman who makes it to morning. Senior Contributor Anne Marie Cribbin wants to know what she does on Tuesday. Through the final girl trope, this reflection explores long-term sobriety and the possibility of becoming someone whose most interesting quality isn’t what she survived.

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The Undeniables: Taylor Swift, Recovery and Learning to Believe Yourself

In a world where opinions often overshadow facts, Contributor Julianne Griffin introduces us to 'The Undeniables'—those whose talents are beyond question. From Taylor Swift's undeniable musical prowess to Michael Jackson's legendary dance moves, these icons are proof that some things simply can't be debated. Dive into Julianne's thought-provoking piece to explore why recognizing true talent is non-negotiable.

SOBER EVENTS

Sober Events Are About More Than Mocktails: Finding Your People Without Alcohol

Mocktails might get people through the door, but connection brings them back. After six months scouting sober events and a lively afternoon at Chicago AF’s Mocktoberfest, Sober Events Contributor Megan Wright shares what’s working and what she’d love to see next.

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See you Wednesday, Sippers!

The Sober Sip 10/26: Taylor Swift and Recovery, The Final Girl in Sobriety, Sober Events Beyond Mocktails and 24 Sober Halloween Ideas