The Sober Sip: Sober Fun Meets Real Talk: This Week’s Best Reads

Golf, campouts, cravings, celeb inspo + more inside. This week’s mix: real talk, sober fun and a gift guide.

FROM THE DESK OF THE FOUNDER (*covered in tchotchkes)

Happy Monday, sober squad! 💙 Let’s kick things off with a roundup that’s got everything: Soba Golf braving the legendary Bethpage Black course, Recovery Beyond turning the Olympic Peninsula into a sober paradise, Amy Liz Harrison diving deep into codependency with Dr. Sarah Michaud, and one very skeptical taste-test of “Liquid Luck” elixirs.

And because we love a sober icon moment — this week’s celeb spotlight shines on Denzel Washington, who quietly celebrates nearly a decade of sobriety with wisdom and peace.

Plus, don’t miss Lisa Crump’s raw truth as “The Only Black Girl in Rehab,” our Sober October Gift Guide 2025 and so much more.

Now let’s get to it…

— Alysse Bryson (*AB That’s Me 💋) / Seattle, WA 🌃 05.01.2006

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SOBER SPORTS

72 Hours at Bethpage Black: Community, Camaraderie & a Legendary Course with Soba Golf

Three days. Two nights in the parking lot. One of the hardest tee times in golf. That’s the backdrop for Soba Golf’s latest story: capturing the raw, unfiltered energy of Bethpage Black before it shut down to prepare for the Ryder Cup.

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A Weekend of Connection and Joy: Recovery Campout on the Olympic Peninsula

On a flawless summer weekend in early August 2025, more than 80 members of Recovery Beyond gathered on Washington State’s Olympic Peninsula for a campout that will be remembered for years to come. Nestled between towering evergreens and the wild Pacific coastline, the gathering became much more than just a weekend retreat — it was a living testament to the power of community, shared resilience and the beauty of sober fun. 

RECOVERY PODCASTLAND

Choosing Yourself: What Codependency Teaches Us About Sobriety, Parenting and Fear

In this heartfelt and laughter-filled conversation, Amy sits down with clinical psychologist, author and sober powerhouse Dr. Sarah Michaud, PsyD. With over 30 years of experience in addiction and codependency treatment, Dr. Sarah brings both professional wisdom and deeply personal stories — including the hard truth of navigating her husband’s relapse after decades of sobriety. Together, Amy and Dr. Sarah dig into the subtle (and sneaky!) ways codependency shows up in everyday life, from parenting to people-pleasing to choosing the “right” sandwich.

HAPPY EVERY HOUR

Liquid Luck Functional Elixirs: Can This Beverage Ease Alcohol Cravings?

Liquid Luck is a brand of functional elixirs designed to ease alcohol cravings and boost well-being. One thing you may already know about me — I’m a skeptic when it comes to claims like this. And, I’m not out to find a beverage to do a magic trick for me, I just want something refreshing and enjoyable to drink that doesn’t contain alcohol or a bunch of added sugar.  

SOBER CURATOR PODCAST

The Sober Shift with Suzanne Warye

If you’ve ever drafted a list of moderation rules — no drinks on Tuesdays, only wine, never tequila — you know the quiet contortion act that props up a relationship with alcohol. In our conversation with creator and author Suzanne Warye, those rules get exposed for what they are: a workaround keeping the real question at bay. Not “How can I drink right?” but “What if alcohol isn’t a privilege at all?”  

SPEAK OUT! SPEAK LOUD!

The Only Black Girl in Rehab | Lisa Crump

I walked into rehab carrying more than a bag of clothes. I carried the silence of generations. The kind of silence you only know if you grew up Black, where therapy was for white folks and rehab was a word you never dared to say out loud. I carried the shame coded into Sunday mornings, where prayer was the only prescription and crying out for help meant you were weak in faith. 

#WEDORECOVER

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Sober Celeb of the Week: Denzel Washington

Denzel Washington has been sober for nearly ten years, having given up alcohol when he turned 60. While wine had become a “very tricky” vice for him — luxury tastings, expensive bottles and a tendency to order more than was healthy — he came to recognize the cumulative effects of those years. Now, approaching 70, he reflects on the damage done, but seems at peace with this “last chapter” of his journey.

For anyone struggling, know that help is available: 📞 1-800-662-HELP (SAMHSA Helpline).

SPIRITUAL SUBSTANCE

“The Bear's” Genetic Truth: Why Television's Most Authentic Addiction Story Isn't Really About Food

There's a moment in Season 2 of “The Bear” that stopped me cold. Donna Berzatto, the family matriarch, is spiraling through Christmas dinner, her alcoholism creating chaos that ripples through every family member in predictable, devastating ways. As I watched Carmy try desperately to manage the crisis, Sugar absorbed everyone's emotions like a sponge and the family system organized itself around Donna's addiction. I realized I wasn't just watching exceptional television. 

SPEAK OUT! SPEAK LOUD!

My Life as a Female Drug Dealer Just Trying to Support My Habit

I never dreamed of becoming a low-level female drug dealer in small-town America. Yet after my home was raided and my record destroyed my chances of employment, I felt trapped. With nowhere willing to hire me, and drowning in addiction, dealing seemed like my only option.

I wasn’t just selling drugs — I was selling off pieces of my soul. I wrapped myself in an emotional armor so thick even I could no longer break through it. For over two decades, I played the part of someone fearless, surviving a world where trust meant vulnerability and vulnerability meant danger.

#ADDTOCART

Sober October Gift Guide 2025

Sober October isn’t just a trend — it’s a full-on glow-up for your mind, body, and vibe. Whether you’re in it for the month, the milestone or a lifetime of booze-free brilliance, you deserve more than just a pat on the back. You deserve presents. Enter our Sober October Gift Guide 2025: a hand-picked lineup of cheeky, chic and downright delightful finds that celebrate the joy of living alcohol-free. These aren’t your grandma’s “congrats” gifts — they’re playful, stylish and perfect for anyone living their best sober life.

SPIRITUAL GANGSTER

Classy Problems: The Rules We Run On

Classy Problems is a daily post of thinking in motion by Dan T. Rogers. Each post stands alone as a thought-provoking piece, yet together, they create a puzzle of ideas. They invite you to see things from a different angle, rethink what you thought you knew, and explore what’s beyond your current understanding.

Classy isn’t just a read: it’s a practice. Read, listen, and join us for Classy Problems Live, a 15-minute, live virtual conversation held Monday through Thursday at 12:15p PT, where we gather to reflect on the Classy Problems post of the day. No need to prep. Just connect, explore and reflect. 

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